When the Elder Offspring was 8, and the little one, just 6, we bought a swing set for the garden. The children were delighted. And we noticed how thoughtful and considerate the Elder Offspring had become.
It was a hot summer's day when we were erecting it, and the EO kept us topped up with cool drinks. These drinks were so very much appreciated. Then just before noon, they came out with a tray of sandwiches, crisps and cake. We were utterly delighted by their thoughtfulness!
It wasn't until about 20 years later we heard their version of the story. "I want Mam and Dad to finish putting the swing set together. If I keep giving them drinks, and make lunch they will keep working, and the swing set will be ready quickly."
I don't know whether to be delighted with their logic, or a bit miffed that we were 'played'.
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